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Open the Dialogue
“There are two dogs inside of every person.
The one that dominates is the one that is fed.”
—Chinese parable
Typically, when we avoid reaching out to clarify our perceptions, it is because we fear we will make a moderately troubled situation worse, or, we may lack courage and skill. In this chapter, we will discuss a template to open a dialogue that is both safe and effective. Never again will you have to wonder what someone's behavior means. Rather than resorting to distorted and damaging speculations, you can ask for the other party's help to understand their actions, and you will be able to do it in a way that entices ...
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