It ends with authenticity
How we lose our authenticity
You enter a speaking scenario with certain assumptions.
Assumptions of how you will behave, assumptions of how your
audience will behave and assumptions of how your surround-
ings and equipment will behave. These assumptions prop up
your ability to be your relaxed, confident self. When something
goes wrong we become panicked and step into ‘coping’ behav-
iours that don’t reflect our real, authentic selves.
For example:
‘I’m expecting 30 people, who I hope will be