Idea 89: How to take constructive criticism
Take each man’s censure, but reserve your judgement.
William Shakespeare, Hamlet
You should work with your critic to identify the areas for improvement, like a fellow surgeon working around an operating table. What should matter to both of you is any improvement in your common work. Nor will you be distracted by imperfections in your appointed (or self-appointed) critic: truth is truth whether it comes from the mouths of angels or barmaids. Try to be grateful in advance for what you are about to receive. The following tips could help.
Be Quiet While You Are Being Criticized and Make It Clear That You Are Listening
Whether you agree or not is an issue to be discussed later.
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