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Simple Truths of Leadership
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Simple Truths of Leadership

by Ken Blanchard, Randy Conley
January 2022
Beginner
176 pages
1h 53m
English
Berrett-Koehler Publishers
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SIMPLE TRUTH #52

Forgiveness is letting go of all hope for a better past.

When someone breaks our trust, it can be hard to forgive—especially if it was a major betrayal. It’s easy to believe that by refusing to forgive, we somehow hold power over the person who disappointed us. We think our refusal to grant forgiveness will make us feel better because we’re withholding something the other person values and needs to move on—our forgiveness.

But whether or not you choose to forgive won’t change what happened. You can’t revise history to make it better. Choosing forgiveness allows you to reconcile the past with the present. It allows you to let go and move into the future unencumbered from the pain of past disappointments.

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ISBN: 9781523000647