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The LinkedIn Edge
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The LinkedIn Edge

by Jeb Blount, Brynne Tillman
September 2025
Intermediate to advanced
336 pages
5h 24m
English
Wiley
Audiobook available
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24Rules and Best Practices for Accepting Connection Requests

As your LinkedIn presence grows, so will your inbound connection requests—a good sign that your content, activity, and visibility are making an impact.

It's flattering when connection requests start pouring in. The temptation will always be there to accept every request that comes your way. But quantity isn't the goal—quality is. Treating your network like a vanity metric dilutes its strength and weakens your influence.

Many people, early in their LinkedIn journey, make the mistake of accepting every request that comes their way. Their network grows fast. It feels good at first, but soon they find that it's just noise—shallow connections that add no value, conversations that go nowhere.

Evaluate Each Invitation Carefully

You must be smart and vigilant about who you allow into your network. Every connection should serve a purpose. Before you click “accept,” think twice. Ask yourself:

  • Is this person's company aligned with my ICP?
  • Do they fit the profile of the decision‐makers and influencers I want in my network?
  • Does this person have influence in my target industry or accounts?
  • Could this connection lead to future introductions, insights, or referrals?
  • Is there an obvious shared interest or common ground?
  • Have they engaged with my content, referenced a mutual connection, or mentioned a relevant event?
  • Are they likely to add value or amplify my network's reach?
  • Will this connection help me grow my network strategically ...
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