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What To Do If...?
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What To Do If...?

by Anne-Maartje Oud
February 2026
Beginner to intermediate
288 pages
5h 42m
English
Kogan Page
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CHAPTER THIRTY-TWO What to do if I work with someone who has narcissistic traits?

Do you work with a toxic individual? We’re not psychologists, so it’s not our role to label people and we should be cautious about doing so. But we can, and should, observe behaviour carefully. We learn about people by observing their behaviour, which helps us understand their tendencies and preferences. This understanding guides us in adapting our interactions for better outcomes. However, when we are dealing with toxic individuals, it requires a whole new level of attention and consideration.

When we notice behaviour affecting us negatively, it’s time to take action. If the impact is so strong that it leaves us feeling really uncomfortable or even physically ...

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ISBN: 9781398626171