Idea 30: Humility
The arrogant man has no friends.
Moroccan proverb
Humility is not being arrogant. Humility is simply knowing the truth about yourself, so it is the enemy of self-abasement as well as self-exultation.
Willingness to own up to your own mistakes or errors of judgment rather than to make others into scapegoats is one hallmark of humility. Domineering, over-assertive or tyrannical men or women don't do that – they are always right even when their ship is sinking.
Another important characteristic is open-mindedness to those views and opinions of others that challenge your own ideas or assumptions. Humble people make good listeners.
Humility also means that you know what you don't know, and so you remain throughout your life open to ...
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