Managing in the Gray
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The Network of Mutuality
If managers ignore their constitutive relationships when they
face hard decisions, they are not only rejecting parts of them-
selves. They are also rejecting a long-standing perspective on
our common human experience. Over the centuries, the idea
that human nature is profoundly social has taken many differ-
ent forms. The sacred Hindu text, the Upanishads, explains
this perspective with a simple metaphor. It says, “As all the
spokes are fastened to the hub and the rim of a wheel, so to
one’s self are fastened all beings, all the gods, all the worlds,
all the breaths, and all these bodies.”
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In the West, Aristotle’s
succinct and famous statement of this perspective was his
definition of human be