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it, although usually with some rewording to remove bias. If you
decide not to follow the request, you can say, “That’s an interesting
question, but I don’t want to ask it right now. I will tell you why after
the session.”
Be fi rm about enforcing the rules. Some visitors will violate the rules.
Visitors who come for several sessions often assume that they are not
going to see or hear anything new. Consequently, their attention
wavers and they start talking among themselves. When you are in the
observation room with them, usually a gentle reminder works best:
“Let’s watch and see if ...