November 2015
Intermediate to advanced
288 pages
5h 8m
English
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RULE 35
Houston, we have a problem
How often do you hear one partner expressing a problem and the other one saying, ‘It’s nothing to do with me’? I’ve known people tell their partner, in all seriousness, ‘Your jealousy/anger/stress is your problem’. I’ve known people go to their partner and say, ‘I’m not happy about the hours you’re working/the place we’re living/the diet we’re eating/the way you pick your toenails in bed’, only to be told, ‘Well, I don’t have a problem with it’.
Oh yes they do. By definition, if your partner isn’t happy, you’ve got a problem. It’s a shared problem and it requires two of you to address it and resolve it jointly. That’s why we use the word ‘partner’,* because you’re both in this together.
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