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Practice the Platinum Rule
Now let’s learn about the Platinum Rule. Dr. Tony Alessandra gets the credit for this one, a logical companion to the Golden Rule. Where the Golden Rule focuses on you, the Platinum Rule focuses on others. The rule states: “Do unto others as they would do unto themselves.”
It means it’s important to learn how others want to be treated, and then treat them as such.
To practice this rule, you have to observe and listen to others, discover their wants and needs, and then try to meet those needs. In doing so, you create a win-win situation, a mutually beneficial relationship—one that serves both parties with mutual gains.