
18 brilliant positive psychology
Many people think that the following things are what will make
them happy:
More money
A nicer house
Losing weight
A new car
New job
New boyfriend/girlfriend.
Although these things may make a difference to how happy you
are, their impact is often short lived. The true sources of happi-
ness and well-being are more subtle and come from both what
you do and how you think.
Two ways to be happy
There are two main distinctions to being happy:
1 Being happy in the moment, feeling good, experiencing
pleasure and having joy in whatever activity we are
presently engaged in.
2 Feeing ‘gratified’ and fulfilled, which ...