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Values that identify us socially and culturally
Values are also increasingly socially imposed and are part of
socially accepted norms. As people become more and more
identified by what they value, the values themselves hold cul-
tural currency. It is to this last point that the psychologist Oliver
James addressed his book, Affluenza,
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which examines why
people are so unhappy despite having so much. If what we value
is merely a reflection of what we think we ought to value, we will
not flourish.
We inherit much of our value structure
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