
Control your attitudes 93
Your values set out what is important to you in life, and when
they interact with your beliefs about yourself and the world they
combine to create a powerful set of drivers that, mostly uncon-
sciously, control many aspects of your behaviour.
Some of these drivers set up stresses and strains in us as we
pursue unhelpful behaviours. Some of your values set up stresses
and strains because they conict with the values of the people
you have chosen to spend time with and organisations you have
chosen to be a part of.
The next two sections of this chapter focus on the attitudes
and beliefs that drive you, and on what you ...