
We believe that it is, and this leads us on to what we believe is an
important principle.
We learn from what we do well, not from our
mistakes
There is a Gary Larson ‘Far Side’ cartoon where a mother from the
Classical World is complaining to her teenage son: ‘And another
thing, I want you to be more assertive. I’m tired of everyone calling
you “Alexander the Pretty-Good”.’
One intriguing new academic theory is that we tend to move
towards the image we project for our future. Call ourselves ‘great’,
and we are more likely to become great. One note of caution,
however: this is a developmental process, not a magic solution. The
theory, known as ‘Appreciative ...