
when they are really unsure about whether their dress is suitable,
they ask their 16-year-old daughter, because she will strike just the
right balance between trendy and mature. It is the same with
behaviour. Just as they will be the first to warn you not to dance at
the wedding disco, even if your favourite Motown classic is playing,
they will also advise you on more formal matters. If, for example,
you have just given a talk at a family occasion, or a school event, ask
your children how you came across. Were you a touch on the
arrogant side, or too diffident? Did you exhibit any nervous habits
such as fiddling with your fingers or stroking your hair? Be ...