October 2017
Beginner
240 pages
4h 19m
English
A friend of mine sadly lost her husband a few years ago. One of the things that she found most surprising was the number of people who felt it necessary to compare their situation with hers. One of her friends going through a divorce told her, ‘At least you knew he wasn’t coming back.’ Another friend explained how dreadful her father’s death had been for her mother because they’d been together nearly 50 years – said in a way that clearly meant my friend’s loss (after only 20 years together) wasn’t nearly so bad.
The fact is that telling someone their situation isn’t as bad as they think is never going to go down well. They know how bad it is (and you don’t). If someone has recently been bereaved, divorced, made ...
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