RULE 38
Never give advice
Yes, ironically I am advising you – strongly – never to give advice. But this is different because you chose to buy this book, read it, consider its contents. And I’ll never know, if you don’t tell me, whether you’ve followed my advice or not.
When it comes to friends, colleagues, family, or anyone else you know personally, however, just don’t give advice. Again, I’m not talking practical stuff (do these shoes go with my outfit, what can I cook for dinner tonight, what font would you use for this report?) You can answer those safely – if you know the answer. It’s the stuff with an emotional angle you want to keep out of. Listen, sympathise, support, but don’t advise.
Yes, even if they ask you: Should I just tell my ...
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