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Crucial Conversations Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High, Second Edition, 2nd Edition
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Crucial Conversations Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High, Second Edition, 2nd Edition

by Kerry Patterson, Joseph Grenny, Ron McMillan, Al Switzler
September 2011
Beginner content levelBeginner
288 pages
5h 25m
English
McGraw-Hill
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THE “HOW” SKILLS

Talk Tentatively

If you look back at the vignettes we’ve shared so far, you’ll note that we were careful to describe both facts and stories in a tentative, or nondogmatic, way. For example, “I was wondering why . . .”

Talking tentatively simply means that we tell our story as a story rather than disguising it as a hard fact. “Perhaps you were unaware . . .” suggests that you’re not absolutely certain. “In my opinion . . .” says you’re sharing an opinion and no more.

When sharing a story, strike a blend between confidence and humility. Share in a way that expresses appropriate confidence in your conclusions while demonstrating that, if called for, you want your conclusions challenged. To do so, change “The fact is” to “In my opinion.” ...

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ISBN: 9780071771320