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productive. They distinguish this role from themselves as
individuals. Thinking this way can help you maintain some perspec-
tive when people display deference or negativity because of your
authority. If you think, “They’re reacting to the role I’ve been given to
play, not to me personally,” you won’t take the disagreement or nega-
tivity to heart, and the deference won’t go to your head.
E ff ective Managers Know When and How to
Use Their Formal Authority
Effective managers understand the benefits and pitfalls of author-
ity. As they try to influence others, they understand what authority
can and cannot do well. They know when and how to use it. Here
are some questions that will help you compare your use of it with
their ...