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perceived as anything from rude to appropriate, to overly-polite, when
used in dierent contexts or in dierent cultures. In other words, the
same redressive value (V(A
x
)) may be viewed as too little, just right, or
too much, depending on the value of the face threat present, which, in
turn, is dependent on the context of the interaction. Suppose someone
says, “Pick up your books!” is may not be considered inappropriate
when spoken by a parent to a child, but it will certainly be considered
rude if spoken by the same adult to her boss.
Dierences in perceived politeness may also occur between dif-
ferent observers of the same conversation because they may hold
dierent beliefs about ...