•Initiating a conversation or exchange and you want to express an idea, make an
assignment, give performance feedback, or offer input
•Replying to another person and you have already listened and checked back to clarify
the message
WHAT TO DO
Step 1—Assess Yourself
•Quickly determine your mood, energy level, and attitudes/stereotypes toward your
listener and your message.
•Consider the appropriateness of your timing.
Step 2—Make a “Door Opener” Comment
•Indicate briefly what you plan to say/ask (not needed when someone else initiates).
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