
192 See Yourself as a System
you, knowing how much money you make. And you may not like
people being angry at you.
Typically, the loyalties you have that are getting in the way of the
goals you are trying to accomplish are not ones you tell everyone about.
They are not on your résumé. We think of them as unspeakable loyal-
ties; they are just as powerful as the people and values you talk about all
the time, but not as apparent. Often these unspeakable loyalties come
from some need, protection, or insecurity. They are part of being
human and can contribute as forcefully as our noble values to the ways
we interact with the world.
Identifying your part of ...