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Anchor Yourself
To anchor ourselves in the turbulent seas of the various roles we
take in life, professionally and personally, we have found it pro-
foundly important to distinguish between the self, which we can
anchor, and our roles, which we cannot. The roles we play in our
organization, community, and private lives depend mainly on the
expectations of people around us. The self relies on our capacity to
witness and learn throughout our lives, to refine the core values that
orient our decisions—whether or not they conform to expectations.
Many people experience a rude awakening when they leave high
positions of authority. Former CEOs and politicians ...