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The group falls silent
• Allow silence for a full minute. The group may
need time to refl ect on an idea or their own
reactions to an issue, so wait before giving
them a suggestion. While you may want them
to respond right away, consider that thought-
ful comments come from participants who take
time to organize and articulate their reactions.
Don’t be afraid of the silence.
• Ask the group directly, “I notice that you’ve fallen
silent. Can someone say what’s happening here?”
• Ask people if they would like you to clarify
something.
• Ask them if you are unaware of a key point or
issue or if you have caused some confusion.
• Think about whether your behavior might
be the problem. Ask yourself if you came on
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