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• Keep members from evaluating or judging
each other’s ideas too quickly. For example, if it
seems like every idea that the team suggests is
getting attacked by other team members, you
can say, “Now there’s an idea. Let’s not evaluate
it just yet. Just let me write it down now, and
we’ll get reactions to it later.”
• Use probing questions to steer members away
from entrenched positions and to help un-
cover the underlying issues. “Work through
this thought with me: What would happen
if your group did agree to take on these new
responsibilities?”
• As a last resort, ask the most contentious indi-
viduals to leave the meeting and then catch up
with them later on.
You have a responsibility, as the meeting leader,
to ...